Monday, August 3, 2009

Connections

When Kashoan asked me to help fill in while she was away, I was honored, excited, and then scared out of my mind. I mean, what would I write about? It would have to be something good. I can’t just phone it in like I sometimes do on my own blog. Plus, I didn't want it to just be my blog in a different location. I wanted whatever I wrote about to be something that Kashoan and I had in common. I wanted it to connect us in some way.

I spent hours going through old posts of Kash’s, hoping some bit of inspiration would jump out at me. I loved reading through bits of her past and got quite a few chuckles, especially at those ever present corn bags which seemed to take over her life last year. Pretty soon I came upon the first Krafty Kash post that I had ever read and commented on. It was then that I started to think about the blogging community and how it has such immense power to bring like-minded people together. Now I can't be too sure, but I think I originally found Kash through Turkey Cookies, which I found via What Knot, which I found via SouleMama. Back then, when I first took that little blog journey and left that comment on Kash’s post about sewing, I had no idea that less than a year later we’d actually be friends. Plus, I’m sure those unsuspecting bloggers had no idea they were my gateway to a new friendship.

Kashoan and I are stay at home moms who, although we love our families more than life, think that maybe sometimes we spend a little too much time in the house, maybe a little too much time immersed in the day to day-ness of life. When all of your time is continuously devoted to house and family, it can be difficult to find time to do things for yourself and make friends. This is why the internet, and the blogging world in particular, plays such a valuable role in our lives.

Obviously I'm no expert on blogging. I do my little thing on the internet and it makes me happy. But I truly believe that if you’re honest with yourself, your blog can become so much more than a journal of your life. It can become a way to meet people, make friends, and connect. If you have a blog, you have the power to reach people all over the world, just by typing words. You can make that connection and it can be such a positive, life changing thing.

Tomorrow I want to tell you about a project I stumbled upon on one of my many blog-hopping journeys. I immediately connected with it and I hope you will too.

Oh and in case you’re wondering, yes, I am the proud owner of one of Krafty Kash’s corn bags.
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10 comments:

  1. Great job, Tammie! It is so interesting how we all find each other, isn't it?

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  2. thanks!
    it is isn't it? and with kashoan in nebraska and me in florida, we probably would have never met otherwise. blogging has definitely opened up this whole world to me.

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  3. I did not know she was in Nebraska-my grandfather was from a little town in Nebraska! I put my kids on a plane today. Without the internet, I would be completely alone for two whole weeks, Tammie!

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  4. mari: ugh. thats going to be a long two weeks for you.
    there are days when my only adult interactions come via the internet.

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  5. I agree with all that you wrote. And rarely do I agree with all of something.

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  6. Great post, Tammie. You summed up all the reasons why I can't give up blogging even though there are heaps of other things needing my attention. It is an amazing community.

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  7. internet keeps me sane, it's just wonderful!
    and how nice of you to blog for her!!!

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  8. It IS wonderful when we can connect with other women across the world! We discover we are not alone in raising our children, struggling to fit in, to succeed, to be good partners and mothers. We can be creative and share with others that sense of spirit.

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  9. What a great post! I agree -- blogging has the power to draw people together in a new way, which has been so great for me and so many other people... Love this post.

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  10. i'm loving all your comments- thank you all so muuch!i think sometimes we as women tend to be hard on ourselves and each other in the real world, even if just at first---but that type of instantaneous judging isn't as common in the blog world.

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